Dating Diaries: make sense of your dating life

Your draft

Everyone you're talking to, in one place

Add him in two taps. Name, photo, where you met. No profile to fill in, and nothing he'll ever see.

Drag to rank them, so you can see what you actually think
Your friends vote on the list and tell you who's worth your time
Move him to your Roster when it turns into something

Your friends

They already know the whole story

Each friend keeps her own diary, and you follow theirs. No recap, no screenshots, no six-message voice note.

They're already caught up on the good date, the red flag, the week he went quiet
Only you see the answers, so nobody softens it or just agrees with the group
You pick what each friend sees: your whole roster, one person, or a single entry

better with your group chat in it

Your roster

Every date and every milestone, written down

The people you're seeing, how many dates you've been on, and what happened on each one.

Dates on the calendar, so you can see him next to everyone else
The moments that matter: first kiss, met his friends, made it exclusive
Your icks, caught early, flagged the second they show up

Your dates

A calendar for everyone you're seeing

Add a date and it writes itself into his diary afterwards. One calendar for all of it, so you can see the week at a glance.

Coming up and recently, in one list
No more double-booking, or forgetting which one you saw on Friday

The feed

Your friends' dating lives, as they happen

Who moved someone to their Roster, whose group rating changed, who finally went on the date. It sits right in the middle of the app.

Give your take without waiting to be asked
Stay in it with the friends who moved away

FAQs

Is this a dating app?

No. There's nobody to swipe on and no matching. It's for the people you're already seeing, however you met them.

Can the guys see any of this?

Never. They aren't on the app, they don't get notified, and nothing you write is public. Only the friends you invite can see anything.

What do my friends actually see?

What you share with them: your whole roster, one person, or a single entry. You can take it back at any time.

What does the diary do?

It remembers every date, note and message you tell it, then points out the patterns: who's consistent, who goes quiet, and the type you keep choosing.

How do I join the beta?

Tap "Join the beta". You'll get it on your iPhone through TestFlight, and you can invite your friends straight from the app.

your diary is waiting

Get your group chat in on it

The beta is open now. Bring the friends you already text about all of this.

Join the beta